I would prefer
if I remained Anonymous. I am young man of twenty (27), working with a
reputable company in Lagos, having God-fearing Parents and two (2) Siblings.
It wasn’t long I
started dating this love of mine. She is killing, attractive, respectful,
anything you can describe someone you cannot do without. We have been dating
for less than a year now, and I pray God should favour our future bliss if He
wills it.
Lately, she
visits me most Friday, and leave the next day, which is comfortable for me as
long as we do not cross the red line. She is hard-working like I said earlier,
even cook for me and sometimes do other chores.
But I observed
that she doesn’t touch my used working clothes and other clothes used from
Monday to Friday. This continued for more than three (3) weeks, but didn’t take
offence nor should I ever.
Remember, she
does other chores for me, even though I may not feel comfortable with it, I
took it as training herself for future. Recently, for curiosity sake, I asked
“BABE, Why do you not wash my clothes, but perform other chores?” Which she
replied, ’We are not married yet, so it is not necessary until we are legally
married’. That has been the usual saying whenever I asked about it.
I didn’t reply
her that very day, but I was bothered within me if something beyond somewhere
is involved. I called some friends, and they told me several things, but to me
I wouldn’t take their suggestions, or in any way pursue such motive. But to get
differed view from a world of differed people, I felt it necessary to see views
that may not be clear or to enlighten me.
Although, I am
not demanding a crazy reason from her, I only hope she could wash, even her
friends confirmed that she does washing a lot, so why am I left in this
diaspora of confusion. Maybe she’s pretending, she’s sincere, my clothes
irritate her, or phobia for washing male clothes, I don’t know yet. But your varied
answers could draw an anchor to this wandered ship which I myself ride.
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