If you
were in that tensed situation, your mind keep telling you, If not for? But think
of it? If not for what? Nobody likes
it when insulted at but your boss is the one doing the business. Were it
someone younger than you, you may deal or show them to learn some politeness.
But this is your boss, who approves and gives insight to work being done,
assessments, promotion tips and anything to make you a useful employee in life.
But will shouting back at your boss even dare come into your mind, or grumble
within you? It is possible to handle such situations better and enjoy lasting
relationship with your boss. Below are life tips that can help you restrain
yourself under pressure.
Be Apologetic
One of the difficult
things humans dislike doing is apologizing. It is felt that when you apologize,
one has lost dignity and respect. But, happy to say, it is the best thing that
can ever happen to you. To say ‘I am Sorry’ will not kill you. It only pampers
the issue at hand. Even though, you are not to be blamed for whatever had
happened, take it that way. That’s life. Perhaps you could now follow the next
tips.
Admit It to Yourself
A one mental-health expert
says: “the best way to deal with any feeling, especially one with which you are
uncomfortable is to admit it to yourself. Avoid denying the feeling or judging
yourself harshly for feeling the way you do.” Talk to your boss about how you
feel. Such conversations can help put emotional reactions in right perspective.
Remember, your thought or feelings should be convened with a soft and mild tone
or rather you will receive another shout.
Discipline
Do not try to justify
yourself as if it cannot happen or minimize the seriousness of the situation,
or shift the blame to others. Just listen to what your boss has to say and let
it rest. Discipline in this context may not necessary mean punishment, but rather
something that becomes part of you. Remember your boss may have had some fact
that you could not have had. Better still, you are not his kid or slave, but
for the sake of discipline, you may allow the matter to rest.
Be Positive
Do not let the outburst of your boss
affect your job. Tendency that it might affect that day’s job is sure, but you
can minimize such tendency and look at life as learning experience. If you are
positive, even after the outburst of your boss on you, it tells who you are,
and other employee may learn this quality of self-control from you.
The next time your boss shouts at you,
you will have already known how you will manage it
.
Please post your comment below on what
you feel about that question.
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